A global gathering of women dedicated to bringing a new paradigm of intimacy to life through online summits and intimate in-person events. Together we rewrite the future of relationships.
New Paradigm Intimacy is bringing the conversations that create a new reality.
I came skeptical and left rebuilt. The work moves through you, not at you. Three months later, I'm still unfolding what happened in that room.
What Victoria has built isn't a workshop, it's a kind of homecoming. The first space where I didn't have to perform any version of myself.
I trained as a practitioner and it changed how I show up — for clients, for my partner, for my own body. The lineage is real and it's careful.

Victoria is a UK-born, Australia-based personal educator, business mentor, and maker of Yoni Elixir who has spent the past decade helping people deepen their relationship with themselves through sexuality, healing, intimacy, and personal growth.
After years of teaching self-pleasure work and training more than 100 practitioners through the school she founded, she went on to purchase and hand-make Yoni Elixir as an extension of her lifelong devotion to self-love, sensuality, and embodied connection.
It is all three, and none of them in isolation. We work in the territory where embodiment, consciousness, and relating meet — not as theory, but as lived practice.
Our online summits are open to all. Our in-person retreats are women-only spaces, held in a women-led container, because some of this work simply lands deeper without the dynamic of the other half of the room.
No. Most of our online and in-person work is done individually within a held container. You arrive as you are.
Our in-person retreats are non-nude and non-sexual. The work is somatic, breath-based, and relational. Boundaries are explicit and held by trained facilitators.
The summits are open, free or low-cost, and gather thousands online for talks and teachings. The live events are intimate, application-only, and where embodied transmission happens.
Practitioner training opens once a year by application. Participation in at least one live event is recommended before applying.